The Book is here!
Marriage and in-laws-The Book is finally here! May I use this opportunity to say thank you to all my friends and family who made the book launching a great occasion. Despite the cold weather you all made the effort to celebrate with me and my family.God bless you all and once again I love you all. You can order your copy at http://www.marriageandinlaws.com/ No related posts. Related posts brought to you by Yet Another Related Posts Plugin.
"But Mama … I'm a Man!"
A man, I mean a husband needs to know when and how to tell his mother that he is now independent and well able to run his own family. A man that appears not to be in control of his family affairs could give the impression to his mother that he needs her help! Why are mothers always the subject for discussion in a marriage? Why so much about mother in-laws in particular? The answers could be that mothers are always helping out whether you are married or not. The protective nature of mothers become more obvious when their son/daughter becomes ...
"Welcome to" or "Welcome into" Our Family?
We all love to be given a warm welcome when we visit our friends and family. Sometimes we get it and sometimes we feel we deserve better than what we get. At times, it doesn't matter if we are welcomed well or not because we know we are only visiting for a limited time. It is a different matter though when it comes to welcoming our In-Laws, I mean when welcoming a daughter in-law/sister in-law into our family (son in-laws as well). Remember when welcoming a daughter in-law particularly that she is coming to join your family for life and your ...
He’s got a feelings too!
A chicken also sweats it’s just the feathers that covers it. Most men still go through horrible times with their in-laws. This could be from any member of their wife’s family including her brothers and sisters. Just because they do not confront it does not mean they are not hurting from the effect: especially, if it is creating a revolting effect on the home and being brought to the knowledge... [Read more]
Know their language
In order for the relationship between you and your in-laws to flourish there is a need to understand their language. Language in this context does not necessarily refer to the spoken language. Appropriate interpretation of their way of communication is important. Failure to do this leads to the wrong idea received which now acts as a foundation for further avoidable problems not only with your... [Read more]
Christmas With The In-Laws
It is always nice if one can have his/her children and their family around him/her for the christmas festivities. It actually shows how close you are to your children, their spouses and your grandchildren of course. Dont forget the reason for the celebration - it is for remebering the birth of Christ. So make Jesus the centre of your celebration. There is no point having a great time with your... [Read more]
It all starts before you meet Mr. Right
Achieving a perfect relationship with your in-laws starts before you meet Mr. Right. Get your foundation right! This involves a self determination within you that you WILL love your in-laws. This helps you not picking up any negative impression easily on meeting them when you eventually start a relationship. It helps if you start attending seminars or other events organised for singles while waiting.... [Read more]
Christmas! The excitement, the —–
Christmas is here! Christmas! The time to celebrate the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ. A time that comes with feasting, lots of cards and presents. It is also, a time for family reunion, but not without the excitement or anxiety of having our in-laws around. If it is a time of excitement, jolly good. On the contrary if Christmas time brings you to the point that you feel you would be better off... [Read more]